Should a childfree man marry a woman who already has kids?

As a childfree man who personally resents children, should he settle for a woman who already has kids, or should he wait until he finds a childfree woman? Which should I choose? Which is best?





Being childfree and looking for a partner, I really stress out that most women want kids and that there are no childfree women left on this earth, which resulted my resentment for children.Should a childfree man marry a woman who already has kids?
You shouldn't marry a woman who already has kids. And you shouldn't marry a woman if you don't want kids. Otherwise, you will have problems.





It might be hard finding someone who is child free unless you find someone who's kids are now adults. Most women do want a family to share with their husband. There is nothing wrong with not wanting kids maybe because you are not ready to be a parent or what ever the case may be. But, before getting involved or before getting married with someone who is single, make sure they are on the same boat as you are.





Question for you if you don't mind me asking. Why wouldn't you want a family of your own?





Hope you make the right decision.Should a childfree man marry a woman who already has kids?
1) Do some growing up and stop getting into relationships with women with children. You waste their time


2) There many child-free women around but many don't like a guy who completely resents children. Even if the woman never wants kids, its not a good sign if he can't even tolerate them


3) Stop being so desperate for someone. Your resentment for children is stemmed from a very selfish reasoning. It makes me wonder what else is wrong with you.
That's sad. My husband loves my son as his own, and he has no kids of his own biologically speaking.





I guess it depends on your age. If the women you are dating are in their 30s or so, then chances are, they already have kids. Maybe you can find someone who has children already grown and on their own, but then you'd be dealing with future grandchildren. Good luck.
It would only cause problems to marry someone with children. It would


not be fair to the children involved. Children know when they are not


wanted. If you are around children you might learn to love them and


you might decide you don't resent children after all.


If you truly love someone I believe that love could rub off on the kids too. But work all of that out before you tie the knot.
There are some women (just like there are some men) who don't want children. I wouldn't suggest that he settle for something that he truly doesn't want because deep down he will never be happy. Plus he if resents children that much then he shouldn't put himself in a situation where he would have to take on a father figure role.
I can understand why some men don't want kids and some women for that matter. You really should not waste your time dating a woman with kids unless you tell her how you feel and is okay with it. There are plenty of women that feel the way you do . You just have to keep looking. Don't marry this woman with kids if you don't want them or the marriage will never work!
One should keep communication open and resolve such issues because children are an important part of the person who has the children and other parties can accept the children or should reconsider not having a relationship with individuals who have children. This sounds like a serious issue the needs to be resolve if marriage is in the picture
Children are wonderful, but not everyone has the patience to handle them. If a man is child-free and has a resentment for children, than he should not be in a relationship with children.


I don't believe that it can work.


Choose a woman who is also child-free and you will be happier.



If a person (man or woman) has children already, then they go together - a package deal, so to speak.





If you resent children and don't want any, then don't waste anyone's time or feelings becoming involved with a woman that already had kids.
There are many women out there do not want children. You just need to find one. However, I can understand you being indifferent toward children, but resentment? Even those women who do not want children will not be very fond of a man who resent children.
I'm confused. Why would you resent the children? It isn't their fault that they are here.


If my husband thought that way, we would not have married and had such a wonderful family and marriage of 17 years.


You need to look in the mirror and stop being so selfish.
your selfish. if the world changes sometimes you need to change. give it up and live life wondering what would have happend or stay with it and do the thing that everyone else on the earth has to do. or you could just go join the army.
If you don't like kids, then don't date women with them. You are only wasting their time as well as your own. There are plenty of women that don't want children. Just stop rushing things and never settle....eventually one will come around.
Please do her and her children a favor and move on. If you resent kids there is no way it would work out and would just hurt the children.