What would most women do if they were in that situation? And what the f*** makes a woman think she can change a man!? Why do women say they never want these little monsters, but then change their minds and want these little bastards?
A lot of people, especially women, are really hung on the kid issue. I know some relationships break up over petty things such as if a man likes video games. But the kid issue had got to be the worst of all petty reasons of break ups.
Personally, I hate children and women who want them. I also hate women who change their minds on this stupid issue.Which would most women choose from? The childfree husband or children?
I hate children. Marry me.
Although, I do like cats. You have to like cats. And dogs.
Maybe also a rabbit or something.Which would most women choose from? The childfree husband or children?
I would choose children over a childish man, any day. A woman needs to choose what is in her heart, and hopefully it is not a hateful man.
The fact that you think women do not have the right to change their minds, is very closed minded. Men and women change their minds about life choices all the time. That is just a fact of life, and you shouldn't waste your life hating anyone over it.
You definitely should never have children, with your anger issues. Good for you for recognizing it, but it is not a petty issue.
I wouldn't let the relationship get that far. If I started dating someone and I found out they didn't want children, I couldn't be with them. I'd definately want to know that sort of thing before I agreed to marry a person. It's not a petty reason. I would say that having children is my main 'goal' in life and I don't want to share my life with anyone who didn't agree. To me, that's a MAJOR difference that could not be overcome.
i would probably marry them anyway because i really loved them....but i hate people who hate children and women who want them...i love children. were you getting married or something and had the wedding called off because of this ore something?...cause you sound very angry.....but i love children and want them....so i guess you hate me.....how nice of you *cough*
I don't see the point of marrying a man who doesn't want children. If I love him, then I would want to have as many of his children as possible, because i LOVE HIM! But, that's just my perspective. Don't know why you'd want to get married and not want kids. That logic is absurd to me.
I know you've asked for commentary from women, but just wanted to add that I'm a childfree man, and am engaged to a wonderful childfree woman. They're out there.
Which would most women choose from? The childfree husband or children?
This woman would choose the child-free female partner.
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I wanted children, so I never got seriously involved with a man who didn't want them. I can respect that.
Fortunately, my husband did want them. We have 4.
I don't want kids so I'd marry him, but like the first answerer he'd need to like animals, preferably cats.
Bitterness.
Don't worry.. After reading this, I don't think there's a woman alive who would want you to be her child's father. O_o Sheesh.
Wow, you're a jerk. If it's so petty, why do you feel so strongly about NOT having children?
It depends on the age of the people involved.
Obviously you'll come across a lot of young women who's hormones are telling them the time is right to conceive. Just as men are controlled by their sex hormones.
Probably your best bet is to stay single, then when you are a lot older choose an older woman who either has already had her children, or decided throughout her life she didn't want them.
There is the female version of yourself, a woman who doesn't want children but feels pushed into it at a certain age by her partner, husband or the expectations of society.
Frankly, if you really don't want children for sure, go get yourself seen to, so you won't make any mistakes you may or may not live to regret. If you are so set against children, then having yourself made unable to make them would be the simple answer.
Most women, statistically speaking, choose children. That's the way of the world. But there are enough of us that are childfree that you can find someone who doesn't want kids.
I think ';the kid issue'; isn't petty--it's a significant and valid reason to break up, actually. For her to try to change you is wrong. But it's not right for you to expect her to forego what she wants, either. And yeah, I don't understand why anybody would want a kid--a whining, crying, weight that drags me down and sucks the life out of me until I reach the blessed relief that is death? No, thanks! But other people don't see it like that, so okay, it's their business.
Childfreedom and the desire for kids is like matter and antimatter: they're fundamental opposites that can't coexist in a relationship. One person can't live without kids, the other would feel trapped--you can't reconcile that.
If you want to take a stand, get a vasectomy. Not only does that keep you from being ';oopsed,'; once you let a woman know you've been snipped, the ones who are only looking for babydaddies will be out of your hair.
And yes, people who say one thing and do another suck.
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