Is my luck running out with it comes to childfree women?

Ok, I'm a guy who prefers to be childfree indefinitely. I seen a majority of answers from women saying they wouldn't date a man who doesn't want kids, and I'm one of them.





Are there any young women around my age (19) who likes to be childfree indefinitely as well?





Is my luck running out trying to find women who likes to be childfree, because I hope it's not???Is my luck running out with it comes to childfree women?
I am a 22 year old childfree female. I do believe I have been very lucky in regards to my own personal life in that I have found a man who is childfree, and I have 2 female friends who are childfree, as well (and please note, I am not saying I do not like being friends with women with children. My best friend is a mother. It's just nice to know some women who share my mindset). I also tend to hang out with the ';arts and academics crowd,'; and I have noticed that many of those ';types'; tend to steer clear of parenthood. Not saying this is a rule, but that's just my experience.





We're out there. I am a member of a Facebook group regarding being childfree, and it has over 400 members, mostly female. Perhaps you're just looking in the wrong areas?





Also, I've noticed a lot of people saying ';you're young, you might change your mind!'; And that may be the case for a lot of people, but I know with every fiber of my being that I will never be a mother. Where I come from, the average age for a women to have her first child is 24 years old. I am fast approaching that age. Many of my friends have kids. I don't think my decision is merely naive rhetoric having to do with my age. I have worked extensively with young children, and I know that having my own is just not something I was meant to do.Is my luck running out with it comes to childfree women?
luck with women has nothing to do with whether or not you want kids, but with how much money you have. Period
Lol Gamer, your luck running out? You are only 19! If you get to 40 and are still having a problem then you have something to complain about!





You will find someone. But, just make sure it's not like on a first date you make her feel like she has to fit into some checklist.
I think your attitudes about children may change when you get older, your only 19.


I'd say most women aren't ready to have kids yet either, at that age.
You are 19, why do you think so much into the future. Your job now is to be a great student and to have fun!!! Adult life has a lot of responsibilities, before you enter this realm, have all the fun you can have.





I don't think you should look for a girl only out of the ones that declare that don't want children. I think, in the future when you'll fall in love you'll both decide regarding children.





Moreover, even if you'll find a girl your age that doesn't want children now, she might change her mind in the future. By the way - you might change your mind too.





In short - go clubbing and have fun!!!
Everyone wants to be free at your age. Just don't date anyone seriously for now. I have a feeling you will change your mind about that eventually.
keep waiting and you will find some one with the me only out look to.NO kidding ck out the locale women's rights group.
Dude, you're 19! sit back and relax. Go out with your friends and you will meet girls. Stay away from online dating sites / programs.
19 is a hard age to expect people to firmly know exactly what they want with regards to child-rearing.





I respectfully suggest that you're at a young enough age that the topic doesn't really need to be discussed up front until you are in a relationship that feels like it could take a serious and long-term turn, unless you are looking to get married young.
At the age of 19 the answer is no. You haven't experienced a full decade as an adult. However the horrible truth is the older you get the faster your luck will begin to run out when it come to child free women.
You will find someone perfect for you soon enough. The majority of us women have a maternal instinct and want children at some point so we dont tend to rule out children and especially not at 19. Many are just starting out in their careers and getting a better education. Some women are just career minded and will never want children but again, they dont normally make that decision until at the very least their 20's. My older sis is 23 and is very career minded so has decided to not have children but she hasnt totally ruled out the possibility, even though she doesnt really have a maternal instinct. Never say never. Your 19 and could change your mind when you meet the perfect woman. My bf didnt want kids when i got with him but is chuffed with his 2.
Hmm. That's a toughy. You mean you don't want to breed, or you don't want to be around children? Because you may find single moms a real goldmine there.





Of course, you're kind of young to have to worry about that. I KNOW there are a bunch of other 19 yo women out there who don't want to think about it yet. And don't you want to date around a bit before you settle down? Just make it plain to any prospective dates that you may want a girlfriend, but you want your relationship to be casual with no discussion of children at your young age. I know they're out there, I just do.
I dont think your luck is running out, but I do see your point. My advice to you would be to maybe look for an older woman who has kids that are either out of the house or almost out of the house. I am almost 33 and I actually prefer to date a man that does not have kids or that does not want kids. Mine are ages 13 and 10. Sounds selfish huh. I do not want anymore kids myself. This also could be an option too. Try being my age and looking for someone without kids or that does not want them. it could be harder for you. Good Luck!!
No.





If you don't want children...that's your business. I will tell you though my son has brought me happiness and joy since he came---but I realize that not everyone is cut out for parenthood--etc. You should be able to find woman out there who agrees with you (they're more ';abundant'; than you think).





(I am willing to bet, however, by the time you reach my age, which is 37, you will want to have kids---but...hey...again, it's YOUR business....and I wouldn't look down on folks who don't want to have kids either)





Take care
Naw.....just be patient, you'll find someone who's a good match eventually.
I think 19 is a little young for most people to be able to have a firm view on that. For at least some women (and some men) the question of wanting children vs remaining child-free is not so fixed.





Unless you are making long-term plans around someone, then the question of having children shouldn't even have to be part of the relationship.
I'm 33 and STILL don't want kids. I love kids. Kids love me. Heck, I used to teach kids. I just don't want my own. Likewise, I see no reason beside taxes to take a wife. There's just no reason to put myself in that situation where there is so much to lose (money, property, comfort, solitude and peace) and absolutely nothing to gain.





As many folks have said, you're 19. Your luck is nowhere near running out yet. You really may change your mind. Most people do.





However, I'm an example of somebody who has NOT changed their mind on the subject, and it is unlikely that I shall. Again, I love kids, I just don't want any. I like women, I just don't want a wife. I'll probably never change. The more I reach my personal goals, in life, the less need I see to include anyone else.





Yes, that has been a deal-breaker for many of the women I have dated, so I just don't bother telling them about my views on parenting and matrimony, until the discussion comes up. When it does, they act mad... like it's personal or something. And then (and this is the best part) they try to keep having these 'serious talks' about 'our future.' When I grow weary of ignoring that, I just tell them that I have no marriage plans with anyone, ever, and no, they can't move in, so better go renew your lease, honey.





And of course, they go away. So it's perfect!





Anyway, odds are you will change your mind. But not necessarily.
I am quite sure that you would be able to find a lady who was not interested in having children.....................however, I wouldn't count children out, just yet. When you are 40 yrs old, I would like to hear your opinion of children............the proof that you existed on this planet.........the most wonderful love of your life that you could ever ask for..............the one who will bring you grandchildren............that you will love so much, as well! I think it is age appropriate that you do not want children, right now.
Slow down. How you feel now may change. I'm sure most people have changed in many ways over 5-10 years. You will probably make a great dad someday LOL! Like when you are 30. I guess you might just want to date a person who is driven in their profession - where are those 19 year old girls hanging out?
I am child free and probably always will be. It has more to do with being un-able to have kids than anything. I am sure you'll find one that doesn't. There are much less women that don't so it will defiantly be harder. Try dating older women.
hmmm. i happen to know a woman who wants to get married but does not want kids. too bad she is 40+. but there are very few women who do not want kids. my suggestion to you is to date a porn star or a lesbian.......... orrrrr ask yourself what is the reason you dont want kids and see if there is a solution for it. you are only 19. i know u feel like ike is coming to an end but really u havent even met all the great varieties of women. but dag now that i think about it. why are u coming across so many girls with kids. oh there is one more option.... MOVE!
no maybe no your right there are still girls in this world who are childfree you just have to find the one you want
I'm 18 and I'd rather be childfree. But don't get any ideas.
I would say that in your particular case, you would be better off dating somewhat older women. If a woman has already gotten well into her 30s and hasn't had children, chances are she's like that because she couldn't have them, didn't want them, or they never were a high priority in her life.