Is it normal to hate parents for their hostility against the childfree?

Ok, if you seen my last question about me not liking kids, now this is about the parents.





I resent parents and wannabes because they like ot judge alot. They always judge childfree people (like me), telling us we're too young, we'll change our mind, we're selfish, arrogant, we'll go to hell, we're gay.





Anyone who has a problem with childfree people, they deal with me! So is it normal to hate parents for their hostility and disrespect against childfree people and their choices and decisions?








Note: I'm sorry, I'm just so frustrated right now.Is it normal to hate parents for their hostility against the childfree?
The poster who's a mother of two does not know what it's like to be childfree and harassed or ridiculed for your choice. I've heard it all over the years (I'm in my 40's and still ecstatically childfree) and it can be extremely frustrating and annoying. I don't hate parents like that, I just avoid them whenever possible.


Some of them are probably either jealous or threatened by the fact that other people made a different choice and didn't follow the ';life script.';Is it normal to hate parents for their hostility against the childfree?
I'm 27 years old and I don't have children by choice. But I don't hate parents and their children. Everyone is different and there are actually children out there who know how to act in public. The only problem I have with being single and childless is that I sometimes feel like everything is against me. I get the most taxes taken out of my checks and hardly receive it back during tax time. There are no programs out there that help with health or dental insurance. But the bright side is that I don't have to look for a babysitter to go out and get to spend my disposable income on shoes and clothes. So, do hate just live life the way you chose to live it.
It seems quite OK to have strong feelings about parents who dont accept a persons'/couples decision to remain childfree. What this boils down to is that MOST parents dream of having grandkids. This is normal, really. When the parents expectations are clearly not going to be met, they may become hostile. This is clearly a reflection of their inability to accept and therefor support the choice of their own child. It is also a reflection of their own maturity. They'll ';get over it'; or not. Be true to your own convictions.


This is YOUR life.
I am the mother of 2 children and I know exactly what you are talking about that. Mothers especially are so competative and critical with each other you wouldnt believe. It is a club you dont want to be a part of. (not being a mother but the ';mom'; club.) I notice that a lot of people do that to single people too ';when are you gonna get married'; that kind of stuff. Some people are so miserable with the decisions that they made that they want to make others feel bad. Others want to play the ';perfect parent'; ';perfect wife'; role. You are not selfish I admire you for doing what you want to do.
no i guess not parents always want the best for us i no for my lil one1 i do u are the only 1 who nos if they want kids i cant see y u dont like kids tho thts harsh !! really harsh! prehaps u have a reason i dont no :s , it duznt matter if uve got kids or not every 1 2 there own and im sure ull have a just as fufilled life as some 1 with children , u make ur life what u want to x
no man. your perfectly normal. No one should ever train there state of thinking it's today's world of ,money and entertainment that leads people to believe they need to change but they don't.