I have a question for the individuals who want to be childfree indefinitely (myself included)...?

Ok, most of you already know that I don't want children. But I would like opinions from other childfree people.





1) Has your family ever criticized you just because you don't want kids?





2) If your family criticized you, what did you do to get them off your back?





3) If you met a girl/guy who wanted kids and you liked her/him very much, would you convince her/him not to have kids?





4) Is it hard to find someone who likes to be childfree indefinitely as well?





5) If you told your parents you didn't want kids, did they turn your words around, like saying you'll have them one day?





6) Did people call you selfish just because you prefer to be childfree?





7) If you were to have sex with your spouse, what would you do to keep from getting pregnant?





8) If your parents wanted you to have kids, would you reject their decisions and remain childfree anyway?





9) Would life be easier with or without children in your life?I have a question for the individuals who want to be childfree indefinitely (myself included)...?
I am only 25 and have never had any desire to have children. My family has never criticized me for not wanting children because I believe they think I will change my mind one day. I have had friends and co-workers say that it was selfish to not want to have kids in my life and that I would regret it one day. I think that it is definitely a topic to discuss with a significant other before getting too serious because of the seriousness of the subject. And no, I don't think you should try to convince someone who does want children not to have them, and that goes both ways. If you do manage to convince them to change their mind, eventually there would be resentment. As far as getting pregnant, I'm a woman, all I have to do is remember to take my pill everyday. Oh, and I don't think anyone should have kids just because their family thinks they should.